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Divorce In A Nutshell

January 2, 2010 in Relationships by Carol Cavanaugh

A divorce, sometimes referred to as dissolution of marriage is the legal complete separation and division of a marriage. In different countries because of the different practices, the process is to be adopted by an authorized judge or other legal head. Annulment is another term that may be used when referring to the breakup of a marriage, however there is a difference. When a marriage is said to be null and void by an individual of the law, it’s called an annulment; meaning that the marriage wasn’t ever legal or actual from the start.

Dissolution of marriage is not permitted in some places around the world, however they usually allow an annulment to be done based on the circumstances. Rare is a divorce uncontested because issues of child custody and division of assets are usually at the core.

There are several additional legal processes that might follow, there could be an argument on who’s most appropriate to have the kid “if any,” and moreover who must pay for child support. With that also comes the issue of who gets to keep the car, house etc. Additionally, there could be a spousal support request, aka alimony.

Dissolution of marriage was possible only on certain grounds with proofs thereof after 1970s. At that time, marital infidelity was the only basis for divorce and had to be proven by the mate seeking the dissolution of the marriage.

Since 1975 most states have adopted the “no-fault” policy, this is where a couple can get a dissolution of marriage, simply based on the fact that they do not want to be married to each other anymore. The commonly used reasons in these cases are incompatibility and irreconcilable differences.

Most people arrange for divorces out of court nowadays; they separate and divide their belongings without hiring attorneys or mediators. When parties cannot come to a reasonable agreement to present in court the utilization of counsels takes effect. Here is an instance in which approval is usually a given. It is preferable that the parties should themselves agree on assets sharing and custody of the child/children, otherwise they may go to the court to decide for them.

Collaborative dissolution is also becoming popular and is very similar to uncontested, however the parties usually need attorneys in order to come to an agreement and there is usually a negotiating process, where each party’s attorney states why their client is the best person to keep whatever asset is in question, who is to keep the children among other things.

Read a humorous guide to Divorce from Hell that will teach you what not to do. If you need more information, go to the extensive list of frequently asked questions about divorce in Austin on the site 24/7.

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How Does Divorce Happen?

October 13, 2009 in Society by Carol Cavanaugh

Many couples consider their wedding day to be the happiest of their whole lives. Divorce is the furthest thing from their minds as they begin living a new life together as man and wife; they readily agree to love each other as long as they both shall live.

The statistics say something different. The Forest Institute of Professional Psychology reports that one of every two first marriages fail and two of three second marriages fail; proving that your chances of true happiness the second time around is not guaranteed. Sometimes marriages do not work out the way we expected. What is it?

If the divorce comes quickly, it probably means that a couple stepped into marriage too quickly. A married couple share more than money, their entire lives are joined together by marriage. For those who are familiar with being independent, this takes some getting used to.

At times there is another male or female involved. The marriage may have grown stale, or a spouse may have gotten too close to a co-worker or friend. Some couples may not be able to overcome infidelity within their marriage.

It is often hard for people to understand how a marriage can end in divorce after ten or even twenty years. Some make think, “They’ve made it this long, nothing could come between them now.” Some couples separate after decades together because they have grown apart; often the result of career changes, kids moving out of the home, and other changes in situation. A lot of times you will hear someone say, I don’t know her/him anymore.

Luckily, there is help for relationships that may be deteriorating. Many different types of marital counseling are available from churches, support groups, and counselors who specialize in helping married couples. It is typically not a quick fix, but counseling can help lay a solid foundation for a relationship.

Sometimes marriages don’t last forever. The odds of a successful marriage improves when both parties are willing to work to find a solution. If you need help, please find a qualified, certified counselor in your area. It is well worth the effort and could possibly save your marriage.

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Divorce and Religion – A Common History

October 2, 2009 in Society by Carol Cavanaugh

Marriage is the oldest institution on the planet. The story of Adam and Eve’s creation and marriage by God is told in the book of Genesis in the Bible. Divorce rates began to increase almost as rapidly. The practice was widespread by the time of Moses, and he puts in place the laws for dealing with the annulment of marriage in the book of Numbers.

Instead of the rule, this will be the exception. It is a bit more commonplace, that it is understood, in Asian cultures. This is the case to an even greater degree in this modern age. This subject throughout the ages is a fascinating one. Let us turn to it now.

Besides the Biblical account and some fragmentary evidence from other cultures, there is not much on the practice in the western world until the rise of the Greek and Roman civilizations around 1000 BC. This was more common in Eastern societies, which allowed men to marry several women at once and generally held marriage in low regard. In Muslim countries, divorce is lawful, but is the most hated of all lawful things in the sight of Allah.

In Greek society marriage was both regulated and accepted. Submit a request to a magistrate, in ancient Athens, and it would be judged as to whether it was lawful or not and either denied or granted. Though disapproved of early on in Roman culture, as Rome became less scrupulous it adopted the creed that marriages should be free. In theory, either spouse can apply for a divorce, however, the majority of people do not.

When the Christian religion became dominant, marriage became more permanent. Divorce was not prevalent in the Middle Ages but there were some who went against that trend such as England’s King Henry VIII. Six women became his wife during his reign, two of them he had beheaded.

In Victorian times, it was still prejudiced against, but, again, still practiced on occasion. It was more frequent for an informal divorce to occur where, though still technically married, the husband and wife would be separated. This was quite commonplace throughout the 18th and 19th centuries, although towards the end of the 19th century attitudes began to swing back the other way.

Divorce is a casual affair nowadays with the more casual legal procedure involved in it. In the United States, marriages end before the death of one partner 40% of the time. Earlier times had vastly different standards.

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PPC Software = Pay Per Click Profits !

July 17, 2009 in Uncategorized by Carol Cavanaugh

In the unforgiving world of PPC advertising, the few make money and the majority make money for good old Google, which are you ?

There is a dawn chorus that’s heard in almost every country in the world, is it the birds heralding the dawn, no it’s the sound of running, often naked, feet heading to wherever the PC is in the home. First the Google home page, then ‘advertising programs’, followed by ‘Google Adwords’, followed by – disappointment as, once again, they discover the sales column is blank and the cost one full !

They are gambling more so than they realise. They are, in effect, amateurs in a world where only those with a professional approach have any chance of surviving. The tragedy is that only about 10% of internet start-ups last more than 90 days, which, to me indicates that the numbers unable to make PPC work must be roughly similar.

You will find, on my website and across the web, articles where I have gone into, in detail, keyword list creation and how to compose the ads themselves, but no room for that here. I do need to repeat, however, that I believe in large numbers when it comes to a PPC campaign – but please, do not begin by bidding on the whole list ! The best way, I have discovered, is to have a very large campaign loaded into Google Adwords but only have a fairly small (perhaps a couple of hundred) ‘live’ at any one time, cutting out the unsuccessful and replacing them with more from your ‘paused’ list.

To give a real life example, I recently put up a campaign consisting of more than 4,000 ad groups, with only 200 of them appearing on the web, as keywords failed to perform they were deleted and another from the main list taking their place. Having it all up in one go makes managing the whole thing easier but this approach has one very obvious, very large, problem, how is it possible for anyone to create a campaign of this size manually ?

It can’t be done manually, if you don’t want to scramble your brain, the only answer is PPC software that can cope with the whole operation. Having ’seen the light’, the next job was to track down software that could do everything I needed it to and in a way I could easily understand.

After a lot of research it came down to two outstanding examples of PPC software, both of which ticked all the boxes.

1. Handle keyword lists of any size.

2. Give every single keyword some sort of tracking code so I could figure out which produced sales and which should be ditched.

3. Could place two versions of an ad within every ad group so that I could see which performed best

4. Make the keyword, where possible, the headline of the ad.

5. Where the keyword was longer than Google’s maximum of 25 characters, substitute a default headline, automatically, that had been prepared in advance.

6. ‘Explode’ the whole campaign so that it could be loaded directly into Google’s Adwords Editor in minutes without any fuss.

7. Very clear tutorials and an excellent help desk

Then the unpleasant business of money raised it’s ugly head, one at $399, the other $147, did the huge price difference mean a big difference in quality ?

With some concern I went for the cheaper one, after all it did have a thirty day guarantee and the people involved with it had a very good reputation. I used Ad Grenade once and was hooked, it worked beautifully and for someone as technically challenged as me that’s saying a lot.

Making real money online when PPC advertising is involved can only be achieved by tightly controlling large campaigns and that can only be realized by adding top quality PPC software to the mix. I now wouldn’t even know how to set up and run a campaign without Ad Grenade, why not watch how, a campaign is created – it’s fascinating !

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Ad Grenade Review From A Non-Techie

July 10, 2009 in Uncategorized by Carol Cavanaugh

If You Know What You Are Doing Pay Per Click Ads Can Make Your Fortune – Or Make You Broke !

This review of Ad Grenade is for anyone, from the beginner to the more experienced, who really wants success with their PPC campaigns. The vast majority of wannabie online entrepreneurs never crack the ppc code, while a smaller number make fortunes – so what makes the difference ?

There are a number of tools out there, including excellent free ones, that make compiling a large list of relevant keyword phrases a breeze, however it is at the next stage where the money-makers and the money-losers part company.

To make real money you must be able to …

1. Produce a separate ad group for every keyword.

2. Automatically make the keyword phrase the headline of the ad.

3. Automatically fill in a default headline when the keyword phrase is longer than the 25 characters permitted by Google.

4. Automatically give all your keywords a unique tracking code so that you can easily spot winners and losers.

5. Create two ads for every ad group.

6. Adjust bids on all of them every day, in seconds, to prevent over-paying.

Imagine how the features listed above could help you to ‘bring home the internet bacon’, you would not only save a massive amount of time but would be able to truly manage your campaigns like never before.

It soon became clear that the choice was between just 2 pieces of software Ad Grenade offered at 147 and the only other serious player at $147. I did not want to spend more than necessary, on the other hand $147 was too much to pay for a product that didn’t do the job. Not entirely confident that I had made the right decision, I bought Ad Grenade only because of the 30 day guarantee, however no need to worry, it’s just wonderful !

The technical side of operating software or indeed anything connected with the internet is a problem for me so it was a massive relief to discover that Ad Grenade is very user-friendly.

Ad Grenade works seamlessly with Adwords Editor (Google’s own free tool) to produce cash generating, Google friendly, dynamic campaigns that are a million miles from the ‘hit and miss’ approach used by myself, and many others, in the past.

I will never give a positive review to software that I have not spent my own money buying and don’t use constantly. The truth is that I would not dream of running a ppc campaign without Ad Grenade simply because, I know that if I did, it I would not make money.

I cannot exaggerate the impact that Ad Grenade has had on my online experience – now it’s your turn – don’t be left out in the ppc wilderness.

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